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- <P><I> Sophira F. Sipayzo</I>
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- <P>When it comes to ourselves we are often not able to see ourselves clearly. As a result, I have previously not had a section of Simplicity to describe myself. But in the world we live in today it is possible to find an unbiased view of ourselves through personality tests. So, I took one.
- <P><a href="http://www.true.com/">TRUE</a> offers such a test. "With the only truly scientific compatibility test online, we'll measure 99 relationship factors to help you find your most compatible match." This is who I am and what I'm all about. My True Personality Report is as follows, minus the section unsuitabke for children.
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- <BR> You have moderate views and attitudes about the world. You appear to have a way of looking at the world that falls somewhere between liberal and conservative. Every coin has two sides, and you are able to appreciate very different points of view. You have found a balance between tradition and progress.
- <BR> You appear to be very ambitious. You are ambitious and are generally motivated by the need for achievement. Setting long-term, challenging, but realistic goals is an important factor in achieving success and reaching your full potential. Future partners will likely be impressed that you are making a great effort to get ahead and be the best you can be. Sometimes, ambition counts more than actual success! Just make sure your aspirations don't come at the expense of your close relationships.
- <BR> You're very intellectual. You're highly driven with a need for knowledge and learning. Your interests and hobbies likely reflect this need. Although you are relatively assertive, you might want to consider the reasons behind your inconsistency in this area. Whether it is simply because you don't know how to assert yourself, or because you do not always feel that you deserve to be heard, you should work on this area. Remember that you have the right to be assertive, and nurture this ability in yourself.
- <BR> You are moderately conscientious. You are fairly conscientious. While your life is reasonably structured, you don't beat yourself up over failures and errors. Still there is no doubt some stress and frustration in your life, especially when you let the chaos in your life get the best of you. People get disappointed when their expectations are not met, so be honest with them – and with yourself – about what you can deliver and by when. This will keep your honor intact. Getting to know yourself, and your limits, will make a big difference, not only in your own life, but also in your relationships.
- <BR><blockquote>You are a somewhat dependable person. While they may not always say it, people truly appreciate it when they can count on you to do what you say you will do. Being there for others when they need you is so important in relationships, and in the long run dependability is a key relationship skill. Working on this area will make a difference in how others see you as a person – and as a potential long-term partner.</blockquote>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>You seem to be someone who is quite orderly without being nit-picky. When people walk into your home, they feel comfortable. They are not threatened by messes that may be lying around and they are also not afraid to mess things up. This makes for an inviting place. You probably won't encounter any relationship problems related to your level of orderliness, as long as you are willing to be somewhat flexible if you are paired with someone at either extreme in this area.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>You sometimes like to plan your actions ahead of time, while at other times you like to jump into things head first. If you are paired with an inflexible planner or a person who prefers to act before thinking, your disorganization might frustrate him/her. Since you don't need your life to be completely structured nor completely unstructured, however, you should be able adjust to either preference.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>In general, you tend to apply a loose structure to most aspects of your life, but your routines are not unbendable and you often tailor them to new situations or events. This is a great way to keep your creative juices flowing, while keeping in mind that routines can be real time-savers and can help you stay organized.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>You seem to be a bit lacking in the self-discipline department. When you are ready to simply give in to your desires - yet again - try picturing yourself with that little bit of extra money in your savings account instead of that new bike, or having finally completed the project that you've been putting off to spend time in a more pleasurable way. It may be worth it to make a sacrifice here and there.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR> At times you show integrity. At times, you lack integrity. People may not feel as though they can fully trust or rely on you. Once you start trusting yourself and your own judgment more consistently, others will gain faith in you. Follow your instincts more often – our gut reactions shouldn't be ignored. While deep down you know right from wrong, sometimes you are unable to do what you know is right. Consider the benefits to you –and to your relationships – if you stay strong and do the right thing more often.
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>It appears that you tell the truth quite often, but at other times you are less honest. Perhaps you tend to cover up the truth when you are afraid of hurting others, or perhaps you tend to be less than honest when you are afraid of getting in trouble. Regardless, you could work on being more consistently truthful.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>Although you appear to be reliable most of the time, this is one area where ‘most of the time' doesn't cut it. You may do what you say you will nine times out of 10, but letting someone down that crucial 10th time can negatively affect their opinion of you. Consider making a concerted effort to be more consistent in this area as it lets people know that you can be depended on – and that you have integrity.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>You seem to be a very faithful romantic partner. You are hardly ever even tempted to cheat. This is an admirable quality, and is an indication of your overall integrity.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR> You sometimes seek out adventure. You tend to play it safe, but occasionally open your mind to new adventures. You feel that sometimes, life moves a bit too quickly for you. Consider being more open to adventure – to exploring your world. You could be pleasantly surprised by the freedom you'll feel when embarking on a new journey – whether it's to a new mall or to a new country. The willingness to expand your mind to fresh opportunities could completely alter your outlook. You'll also be sure to meet a lot of new people along the way – including potential mates! As someone who is already open to adventure, yet doesn't crave excitement all the time, the number of possible mates is unlimited.
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>Your inflexibility may sometimes hold you back from being amenable to new adventures. Unlocking the potential for adventure in your life may be as simple as letting go of your stubbornness and inflexibility.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>Although you don't strive for a life filled with new experiences, you are not against it either. Apparently you see the value in routine and familiarity, while still being able to appreciate fresh and unfamiliar situations or circumstances. This is a very balanced approach.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>Although you are sometimes energetic and lively, you might occasionally find yourself running out of steam. This may be due to the fact that there are certain situations that really excite you and give you a boost, or it could be because you prefer to pace yourself so that you don't run out of energy by the end of the day. Either way, people are probably comfortable being around you - no matter what their own level of energy happens to be.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>It appears that you are relatively spontaneous. At times you like to stick to the expected, while other times you prefer to be more impulsive. This likely means that you could be happily paired with people who need a lot of spontaneity or with people who need to be encouraged to live a little.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>You appear to be inflexible about certain issues, while in others, you're more willing to compromise. You stick to your guns when something is important to you, and you tend to let the rest go.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR> You have a somewhat adaptable personality. While you do not always welcome adjustment to a new routine and allowing others to take control, at times the thought appeals to you. Being relatively open to change, you often experience new opportunities and fresh perspectives. Becoming even more at ease with changing your routine will make your relationships easier by eliminating many unnecessary arguments.
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>Although you have a slight tendency towards perfectionism, you are definitely not obsessive. There may be some life areas where you feel the need to be perfect, but in general "good" tends to be good enough for you. As a result you are not overly picky or critical towards others. This means that when you are being picky about something, your partner will know that it is important to you.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>On occasion, you have difficulty accepting or adjusting to changed plans, new ideas, or strange situations; at other times you are better able to cope. Flexibility allows for compromise in relationships, with both parties having their needs met as much as possible. Your ability to resolve conflict may be hindered at times by your unbending mindset.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>While you appear to be flexible enough to try new things every once in a while, you also enjoy the comfort of routine and familiarity. Opening your mind further to new experiences will likely enrich your life as a whole.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>You tend to apply structure and routine to some aspects of your life, while it generally doesn't appeal to you in others. While this is a great way to keep your creative juices flowing, keep in mind that routines can be real time-savers and can help you stay organized.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR> Occasionally you behave in a dominant manner. You are generally comfortable letting people go about their business as they see fit, however, you tend be less relaxed in certain areas. Your occasional tendency to try to exert power over others can be a problem, especially in the case of a two-way power struggle in which one person becomes afraid to express his or her disagreement. If, however, you find a partner who works well with you, all will be well.
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>Although you are relatively assertive, you may still want to work on how you communicate your wants and needs to others. Standing up for yourself isn't pushy, as long as you make sure to factor others' wants and needs into the equation as well.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>The fact that you occasionally have a tendency to dismiss your partner's opinion is something you should look out for. Accepting that you cannot change your partner's every opinion is an important relationship skill to learn. Others may perceive you as pushy if you try to force your ideas on them.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE>Although you are generally able to accept your partner's goals at face value even when they differ from you own, there are certain areas where this is not the case. Keep in mind that lending your partner unconditional reinforcement in reaching his/her goals is very important in a relationship. Consider being encouraging all the time instead of only some of the time for the sake of your partner - and your relationship. Your partner shouldn't have to feel like s/he must give up his/her goals for you.</BLOCKQUOTE>
- <BR><BLOCKQUOTE> It appears that while you are not controlling, per se, if it is really important to you to do something a certain way or to select a certain option, you are adamant about your position. This is great, because you don't attempt to control others and you also don't you let them walk all over you. "Live and let live" is your motto. </BLOCKQUOTE>
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